I am in love - what can I do?

[arnab]

shyt man...u da playa...

(dont mind my lingo....It was an attempt to be cool)

I agree , now sopme real pics please, we are all friends after all...

[Neil]

I'm gonna take it slowly. I found out that she has a b/f (and she is still talking like this to me). I will let the two break up first, even though that sounds sinister. It's best for her because I have seen the guys photo on her MSN album, he was exactly what I expected, a "Bangali wannabe nigger".

Getting the phone number was easy, now getting her to dump her dumbass boyfriend will be tougher. Any suggestions you evil people!

Disclaimer: Children, do not try this with other girls unless you are sure you can take on the bf. DTD is not liable for any injures such as your haath, paa getting pangu'd or any other psychical damages.

Also to Natok directors: You are prohibited from creating a natok with my life story without written permission by me. If you are interested please contact me.

no probs...

create credibility....

because of me,

a punjabi girl in sydney, broke up with her fiancee...

just cuz of what i had said...

she was in love with me and her fiancee...

i made out with a chick who already had a boy frend..

again... cuz of the way i was...



its no probs..

gotta go sleep..

tell u how later on...

:icon_pray: :icon_pray: :icon_pray: you are the man anionz.

[SarkaR]

I'm gonna take it slowly. I found out that she has a b/f (and she is still talking like this to me). I will let the two break up first, even though that sounds sinister. It's best for her because I have seen the guys photo on her MSN album, he was exactly what I expected, a "Bangali wannabe nigger".

Getting the phone number was easy, now getting her to dump her dumbass boyfriend will be tougher. Any suggestions you evil people!

Disclaimer: Children, do not try this with other girls unless you are sure you can take on the bf. DTD is not liable for any injures such as your haath, paa getting pangu'd or any other psychical damages.

Also to Natok directors: You are prohibited from creating a natok with my life story without written permission by me. If you are interested please contact me.

no probs...

create credibility....

because of me,

a punjabi girl in sydney, broke up with her fiancee...

just cuz of what i had said...

she was in love with me and her fiancee...

i made out with a chick who already had a boy frend..

again... cuz of the way i was...



its no probs..

gotta go sleep..

tell u how later on...

Bangladesh hoiley oi sagol er haath paa bhainga falaitam. But ei desh e bhdro hoitey hobey. I want to give her some space to breathe because I was harsh on her for not telling me before that she had a b/f and acting so mushy.

After this issue cools down I will ring her and say that "ok perhaps we were all too hasty about this. I want to get to know you more, if thats alight."

Once I get in her life it will be hard for her to let go of me because I can give her things her ape ass boyfriend could never do. :blue_wink:

Let's wait, inshallah maybe this hot specimen be guided in the straight path to her soldier boy.

Anionz bhai what do you think of the plan. Shall I wait it out for her or do something else?

[zoheb]

bdmilitary, one question for u.....How did u know that she has a bf? did she tell that to u? may be she is trying to make u jealous, so that u fall for her even more........Remember anionz theory of "Low Supply, High Demand"........may be she is using that theory, to get u closer to her. there is a high possibility that she likes u a lot and she wants u as much as u want her. but she prolly doesn't know that u like her a lot too......so she is trying to acheive u with the same techniques that anionz told u. cause otherwise she wouldn't talk to u like the way she is talking to u now......specially if she had a bf.

anyone else think the same?? this could be possible...what say?

[arnab]

very hard to figure out girls so tread carefully...

[SarkaR]

bdmilitary, one question for u.....How did u know that she has a bf? did she tell that to u? may be she is trying to make u jealous, so that u fall for her even more........Remember anionz theory of "Low Supply, High Demand"........may be she is using that theory, to get u closer to her. there is a high possibility that she likes u a lot and she wants u as much as u want her. but she prolly doesn't know that u like her a lot too......so she is trying to acheive u with the same techniques that anionz told u. cause otherwise she wouldn't talk to u like the way she is talking to u now......specially if she had a bf.

anyone else think the same?? this could be possible...what say?

Zoheb bhai I dont think she was joking around. She sounded very serious.

These are some things she wrote:

u kno...its probabley the first time...a guy actually wanted to get to kno me...its usally...more like..talk to u for bit...like seconds and than they'l start flirting and make it obvious they wanna go out..

***

I asked a few seconds later: "do u think if u didnt have a bf....that u would have gone out with me?"

She said: honestly...yes i would...u are very sensible..and very caring..and sweet...u are a bit like my bf..ur very intectual..i like that..u hav most thing i like in guys..so offcourse i would

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Guys I think she was serious. She apoligised many times for not telling me that she already had a bf.

I am waiting for her to come online. I said some harsh things to her, I want to make up now, perhaps I will have better chance.

[zoheb]

ahh i c........ur love story seems complicated now. where is anionz? :help:

[anionz]

bdmilitary, one question for u.....How did u know that she has a bf? did she tell that to u? may be she is trying to make u jealous, so that u fall for her even more........Remember anionz theory of "Low Supply, High Demand"........may be she is using that theory, to get u closer to her. there is a high possibility that she likes u a lot and she wants u as much as u want her. but she prolly doesn't know that u like her a lot too......so she is trying to acheive u with the same techniques that anionz told u. cause otherwise she wouldn't talk to u like the way she is talking to u now......specially if she had a bf.

anyone else think the same?? this could be possible...what say?

Zoheb bhai I dont think she was joking around. She sounded very serious.

These are some things she wrote:

u kno...its probabley the first time...a guy actually wanted to get to kno me...its usally...more like..talk to u for bit...like seconds and than they'l start flirting and make it obvious they wanna go out..

***

I asked a few seconds later: "do u think if u didnt have a bf....that u would have gone out with me?"

She said: honestly...yes i would...u are very sensible..and very caring..and sweet...u are a bit like my bf..ur very intectual..i like that..u hav most thing i like in guys..so offcourse i would

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Guys I think she was serious. She apoligised many times for not telling me that she already had a bf.

I am waiting for her to come online. I said some harsh things to her, I want to make up now, perhaps I will have better chance.

yes you are infact correct in calling the b/f an Ape.

You see, girls always look for a back up plan, and rite now you are on your way towards becoming her back up plan.

If she indeed is truly beautiful by the way you described, then it would true that guys fall her due to her outer appearance.

Now Girls DO know whether they are beautiful, hot, exotic or not.
Some girls become a snob about that while some is grateful for the beauty granted to her by GOD.

From the little chat convo that you provided us, it appears that she`s the latter type.

She knows she`s beautiful but she does not exaggerate on that and maybe she`s infact lookin for a partner who indulges himself into her inner soul rather than her materialistic possesions.


1.) Show More interest in her activities and her behaviour.

continue to give her some room to breath.

after a while ask her would she be interested in hanging out with you to some scenic place (no malls, but some place nice where you 2 can converse at a much more intimate way)

if she declines, tell her, to let u know if she is interested later on, and then to give u a buzz...



first of all

IT IS NOT IN MY LEAGUE OR PHILOSOPHY TO BREAK UP ANOTHER RELATIONSHIP TO ACHIEVE YOUR PERSONAL DESIRE.

I believe in Karma and "What goes around, Comes Around"

so my personal suggestion is to leave this girl alone and move on.

Today she might break up with her boy friend,
Tomorrow she might start dating you,
Day-After-Tomorrow she might BREAK UP with you,
Then the Day-After-That she might be dating another BDmilitary dude..


you get my point?

she already proved it that she`s unstable in a relationship and that you would always have to work 110% to retain her amongst your possesion.




SO..... think about it..... :blue_idea;

[Neil]

bd bhai....ami anionz er moto advice detay parbo na, but alwayz remember two rules. thoes are the two rules i live my life with.

RULE# 1

Never understimate your opponate's greed.(you might think her bf is an a**hole and don't care about her.maybe he does.you never know)

RULE#2

Never get high with your own supply.(you might think she loves and care about you.your mind gets really relaxed thinking about it.but maybe she doesn't.so don't let your immotions come to play.)

Courtisy: Scarface.

we always try to think things in our own way.thats how our brain works. but after we do it, then we find all the errors about the matter. so take it easy and don't get upset.she's not the last girl in earth for you.we all family here(at least that how I feel) and we dont want a family member get hurt for a girl.

sorry guys.....im saying all these because it heppend to me couple of time.where was anionz when i needed him???? :frocket:

[anionz]

bd bhai....ami anionz er moto advice detay parbo na, but alwayz remember two rules. thoes are the two rules i live my life with.

RULE# 1

Never understimate your opponate's greed.(you might think her bf is an a**hole and don't care about her.maybe he does.you never know)

RULE#2

Never get high with your own supply.(you might think she loves and care about you.your mind gets really relaxed thinking about it.but maybe she doesn't.so don't let your immotions come to play.)

Courtisy: Scarface.

we always try to think things in our own way.thats how our brain works. but after we do it, then we find all the errors about the matter. so take it easy and don't get upset.she's not the last girl in earth for you.we all family here(at least that how I feel) and we dont want a family member get hurt for a girl.

sorry guys.....im saying all these because it heppend to me couple of time.where was anionz when i needed him???? :frocket:

yes i concur with neil, do NOT involve urself deeply with a girl as she tends to be more towards the materialistic level with a slight touch of sensibility.

and sorry neil, im here now (hopefully) and u can ask me for any future advice....

[SarkaR]

Anionz and Neil I think that she is not getting enough attention from her bf that is why she is probably keeping me as a "backup" incase the ape decides to screw it up.

You are right, most girls are materialistic I guess. She asked me what I do, what my dad does etc. She complemented me on how nice our house is. She seemed very impressed. I believe that could be one aspect of her liking me other than my general self. Compared to most Bangladeshi guys she says I am good as I am not in it for a one night stand or some fun like the Bangali ape she calls a bf.

I don't want to get emotionally attached because I know what it feels like if it doesnt work out. My definition of "working out" means marriage. I got emotionally attached to my first love and it took a lot out of my life when we broke up. I never want to repeat the same mistake again.

Let me take it slowly. I SMS'ed her last night saying that I was sorry for behaving so harshly and that I still want to be her friend and chat.

She has not replied back yet. So I guess either she wants to let it cool for a while or I guess my last chance is over. I would like to think it was the first option. Let us see what Allah has planned for me.

But seriously I see many Bangali girls. I feel sorry for them because they are going about things the wrong way. I feel like I could help them, I personally have a huge problem with other Bangladeshi girls going out with foreign non Muslim men. Call me a traditionalist but thats me. I like the old style and I want to mould my gf like that. I am not in it for the faltu business as life is short so I try to be a good Muslim, good Bangladeshi, good son and good lover.

The reason I want a gf in the first place is that she will make me want to live my life one more day. Everyday that I will wake up I will have a target to make my life successful. If you have someone to love, someone that loves you back you have a reason to strive to succeed in life. It gives you stability in your job, in your family, in your mind and in your characteristics as a man. It makes you a man really. I just want that. :)

[Neil]

i respect your feeling bd.beside i find lot in common between you and i. i hate thoes "ape's".wannabe FALTU gangsta's attitude. and i alos agree with the facts of bangladeshi girls falling for thoes stupid guys. its your life and your choice to dreame about her. i know the feeling man. but all we are trying to do here is HELP. because girls are good with breaking hearts.so don't get too serious about it. take it easy and if she is the right person for you, you will get her.

[SarkaR]

i respect your feeling bd.beside i find lot in common between you and i. i hate thoes "ape's".wannabe FALTU gangsta's attitude. and i alos agree with the facts of bangladeshi girls falling for thoes stupid guys. its your life and your choice to dreame about her. i know the feeling man. but all we are trying to do here is HELP. because girls are good with breaking hearts.so don't get too serious about it. take it easy and if she is the right person for you, you will get her.

Na ami already dhorey nisi je she is not mine. I don't have her so if I don't have something I can't lose it. So no big deal because if I get emotionally attached ultimately I will be the one in trouble if I don't succeed.

[Neil]

bd bhai....ami anionz er moto advice detay parbo na, but alwayz remember two rules. thoes are the two rules i live my life with.

RULE# 1

Never understimate your opponate's greed.(you might think her bf is an a**hole and don't care about her.maybe he does.you never know)

RULE#2

Never get high with your own supply.(you might think she loves and care about you.your mind gets really relaxed thinking about it.but maybe she doesn't.so don't let your immotions come to play.)

Courtisy: Scarface.

we always try to think things in our own way.thats how our brain works. but after we do it, then we find all the errors about the matter. so take it easy and don't get upset.she's not the last girl in earth for you.we all family here(at least that how I feel) and we dont want a family member get hurt for a girl.

sorry guys.....im saying all these because it heppend to me couple of time.where was anionz when i needed him???? :frocket:

yes i concur with neil, do NOT involve urself deeply with a girl as she tends to be more towards the materialistic level with a slight touch of sensibility.

and sorry neil, im here now (hopefully) and u can ask me for any future advice....

thanks bor.and as i said, i'll be looking forward to it. :blue_wink:

[SarkaR]

She hasnt messaged me today even. Mezaz kharap! :blue_mad: