I am in love - what can I do?

SarkaR · Post by **SarkaR** » Mon Sep 19, 2005 12:27 pm

GTI VR6 wrote:Ajmer.... :blue_wink:

:blue_lol; :blue_lol; :blue_lol; GTI you got it. Good work sherlock.

I fund out more info about her, she is in high school (year 10-12).

Post by **arnab** » Mon Sep 19, 2005 1:23 pm

how old are you bdmilitary? just curious since you said she wa sstill in high school

SarkaR · Post by **SarkaR** » Mon Sep 19, 2005 3:33 pm

arnab wrote:how old are you bdmilitary? just curious since you said she wa sstill in high school

I am 20+ so there is 2-3 years different. :)

I found out some more info. There is going to be a Bangladeshi mela next week in my area and she is likely to go their. I was praying to Allah about her (when can I meet her at the earliest).

So anionz bhai what do you recommend I do now?

Post by **arnab** » Mon Sep 19, 2005 7:52 pm

aray mia get your hair jelled up and get a nice khorta, not those silk ones which feels like paper. And just be you.

SarkaR · Post by **SarkaR** » Mon Sep 19, 2005 8:39 pm

arnab wrote:aray mia get your hair jelled up and get a nice khorta, not those silk ones which feels like paper. And just be you.

Don't worry about that because that I can do. My best friend is coming too to try his luck on her cousin (who is fresh off Bangladesh). Let's seee what happens. :blue_wink:

Post by **arnab** » Mon Sep 19, 2005 8:42 pm

bdmilitary wrote:
arnab wrote:aray mia get your hair jelled up and get a nice khorta, not those silk ones which feels like paper. And just be you.
Don't worry about that because that I can do. My best friend is coming too to try his luck on her cousin (who is fresh off Bangladesh). Let's seee what happens. :blue_wink:

full confidence from, wish you luck and tell us all about it....

anionz · Post by **anionz** » Tue Sep 20, 2005 12:20 am

bdmilitary wrote:
arnab wrote:how old are you bdmilitary? just curious since you said she wa sstill in high school
I am 20+ so there is 2-3 years different. :)

I found out some more info. There is going to be a Bangladeshi mela next week in my area and she is likely to go their. I was praying to Allah about her (when can I meet her at the earliest).

So anionz bhai what do you recommend I do now?

Since earlier u said that you are afraid of the BD community about the gossip that they spread like wild fires, id say, go to the mela, look out for her, but dont interact more than a simple "hi n Hello".

Since its a mela, every other person will be lookin at each other. So its highly risky for u if u spend more than 2 minutes with that girl.

Also dont be going wherever she is going, in other words, dont follow her around.

The biggest prob with HS kids are that they are Dependent.

Try an alternative location where u guys can meet...
Find out who her friends are, indirectly invite them together to a lunch outside to some secluded restaurant.

DONT INTERACT MUCH IN THE MELA!

SarkaR · Post by **SarkaR** » Tue Sep 20, 2005 5:59 am

anionz wrote:
bdmilitary wrote:
arnab wrote:how old are you bdmilitary? just curious since you said she wa sstill in high school
I am 20+ so there is 2-3 years different. :)

I found out some more info. There is going to be a Bangladeshi mela next week in my area and she is likely to go their. I was praying to Allah about her (when can I meet her at the earliest).

So anionz bhai what do you recommend I do now?
Since earlier u said that you are afraid of the BD community about the gossip that they spread like wild fires, id say, go to the mela, look out for her, but dont interact more than a simple "hi n Hello".

Since its a mela, every other person will be lookin at each other. So its highly risky for u if u spend more than 2 minutes with that girl.

Also dont be going wherever she is going, in other words, dont follow her around.

The biggest prob with HS kids are that they are Dependent.

Try an alternative location where u guys can meet...
Find out who her friends are, indirectly invite them together to a lunch outside to some secluded restaurant.

DONT INTERACT MUCH IN THE MELA!

Thanks that is a very good idea. I don't think we will get a quite momemnt with each other anyway because of all her friends, family etc.

I first need to further understand her psychology. I want to know what kind of person she is. This mela will give me a good opportunity to have a look at her friends who she hangs around with and also her nature.

Don't worry I will not follow her around, I am not 14. For some reason she looks older than a year 10 girl. I think she is in year 12 because when I saw her I thought she was going to university because she is quite tall and well shaped for a Bangladeshi girl her age.

I will keep you updated.

Neil · Post by **Neil** » Thu Sep 22, 2005 10:19 am

WOW anionz, you really craked it down man, good luck to you and my man bdmilitary for falling in love. well bd, try to make it better, not like HIndi flim. if you need advice, you know where to find us :blue_wink:

anionz · Post by **anionz** » Thu Sep 22, 2005 8:56 pm

Neil wrote:WOW anionz, you really craked it down man, good luck to you and my man bdmilitary for falling in love. well bd, try to make it better, not like HIndi flim. if you need advice, you know where to find us :blue_wink:

if YOU need any advice on any relationship, YOU know where to FIND me...

I am the Relationship Expert. Free advising for all DTD Members.

p.s

im NOT in love....

Neil · Post by **Neil** » Fri Sep 23, 2005 9:21 am

anionz wrote:
Neil wrote:WOW anionz, you really craked it down man, good luck to you and my man bdmilitary for falling in love. well bd, try to make it better, not like HIndi flim. if you need advice, you know where to find us :blue_wink:
if YOU need any advice on any relationship, YOU know where to FIND me...

I am the Relationship Expert. Free advising for all DTD Members.

p.s

im NOT in love....

thanks for the offer, looking forward to it :blue_wink:

zoheb · Post by **zoheb** » Fri Sep 23, 2005 3:42 pm

bdmilitary:- congrats bro and wish u all the best with the girl. I'm sorry i can't give u any advice since I'm a complete illiterate in relationships. Just follow anionz advices. they'll work for u for sure.

anionz:- great advices dude. my sister is a psychology major as well, and she gave me the same damn advices like urs.....

great going bro.....keep it up.

anionz · Post by **anionz** » Sat Sep 24, 2005 3:17 am

zoheb wrote:bdmilitary:- congrats bro and wish u all the best with the girl. I'm sorry i can't give u any advice since I'm a complete illiterate in relationships. Just follow anionz advices. they'll work for u for sure.

anionz:- great advices dude. my sister is a psychology major as well, and she gave me the same damn advices like urs..... great going bro.....keep it up.

how old is ur sis? :blue_wink:

:blue_lol; :blue_lol;

rawfin · Post by **rawfin** » Sat Sep 24, 2005 7:44 am

Good luck bd military! Hope everything works out.

Post by **arnab** » Sat Sep 24, 2005 12:16 pm

I wonder how the mela went, no words from BDMilitary yet

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