I am in love - what can I do?

[SarkaR]

I wonder how the mela went, no words from BDMilitary yet

Your favourite Bangladeshi soldier has completed his mission successfully. Man I did it......got her number her MSN....and her ATTENTION....Now she is after me.... :blue_lol; :blue_lol; :blue_lol; :blue_lol; :blue_lol;

I am the record holder. I got the number in 15 secs...I guess she was waiting for me too to make a move.

[arnab]

great job bro

[SarkaR]

great job bro

Man after I came back from the mela I offered Esha namaz to thank the Lord. I just can't believe it. It seemed so easy. Thanks to Allah. :)

She just SMS me, we will be talking/chatting soon. :) [Already she is writing virtual kisses on SMS) :blue_wink:

[SarkaR]

Anionz bhai, I took the phone number/MSN. Now what do you believe I should do? I am speaking with her now, but I don't know wtf I am going to talk about. I am Blanked out (coz I am tired from the mela).

[Neil]

good job bd .....alrady sms kisses????? . meeeeeeaaawwwwww that calls for a toast."TO THE MAN WITH A LOVE MISSION>>>WE WISH HIM GOOD LUCK". :icon_pidu:

[GTI VR6]

good work bdmilitary!

[SarkaR]

Thanks guys. We spoke last night. We were both so exhausted so we couldnt chat for more than 30 mins but today we will try more. She is doing a double degree on business/psychology.

Anionz bhai....she is from your field, you better give me extra good advice because she probably knows my next steps. :blue_lol;

[Neil]

"business/psychology"---- :doh; :doh; :doh; :doh; ......damn..anionz, you better give him some serious doublecheezy advice. :blue_wink:

[SarkaR]

Oh yes I must thank homogenius for his advice. We actually started out talking in the mela about education too. I thought it wouldnt work. I tried anionz bhais approach after i finished homogenius advice. Both work. I had to speak about education because her younger brother and sister was their. I just needed to get her number. But now we can talk more freely.

Thank you everyone for your support and advice. Now I am waiting for more advice from anionz bhai (AKA. DTD's official relationship councillor). :blue_lol;

[arnab]

BDMilitary, ice is broken already so he is impressed with who you are, akhon kotha bolo like the way you do, realx up the tough part of till you got her number, and 30 mins of talking is pretty good, so you dont need our help, I think you are doing fine by yourself.

Cheers....

[anionz]

Anionz bhai, I took the phone number/MSN. Now what do you believe I should do? I am speaking with her now, but I don't know wtf I am going to talk about. I am Blanked out (coz I am tired from the mela).

Sorry i couldnt reply to you quicker. i just got back from a 11 hr shift and finished my dinner.

1.) Take it slow.

she`s all over you, thats for sure. But ur interest shown should be minimal now. Casual talk.

"how was your day?", "wats ur plan for the week/weekend?", "wat do u do in ur free time..." etc, etc.

do not say or exhibit:

"I like u :blue_wink: ", or "muah!" or "kiss smiley, or any other sort of emotion expressing icons or expressions.

u have to play hard to get.

think bout this,
u want something, then u get it rite away, u`ll play with it for a while but ull soon loose interest in it since u got it SO easily.

but if its hard for u to get it, ull stick to it until u get it and once u get it u cherish it for a longer time. and girls do this for a longer period of time.

give her some room and show her that u need some room as well.

2. Give breaks in communicating with her


what to talk about with her?

talk about all different kinds of things that are out there...

start with, wats her favourite ice cream..chocolate...
dont go askin bout her fav number or colour, that creates boredom in the convo...

and thats old method..

the reason u ask ice cream or chocolate is because when ull go later on to meet her, ull BUY her favourite chocolate and give her a small sweet surprise.
she`ll very very much appreciate that u remembered her choice..

treat her ice cream... wch flavour? u already know it....


so, casually ask her things which u can use later on to give her small suprises... everyone loves it when they are surprised by the things they like to have...

Later on at another day..
ask her what kind of qualities she looks for in a guy,

tell her how YOU are...
express ur self..

tell her ur honest and like to be expressive,
ur compromising and sacrificing...


start talkin bout what u did that day or what upcoming events are comin up for u...

talk briefly about them, then let her comment on them and also reply back to her comments..

LISTEN to what she says, dont HEAR....

I G2G now..

DTD members are coming over...

[arnab]

u single?

[zoheb]

congrats bdmilitary on ur progress...........great going bro. keep it up!

bdmilitary:- congrats bro and wish u all the best with the girl. I'm sorry i can't give u any advice since I'm a complete illiterate in relationships. Just follow anionz advices. they'll work for u for sure.

anionz:- great advices dude. my sister is a psychology major as well, and she gave me the same damn advices like urs..... great going bro.....keep it up.

how old is ur sis? :blue_wink:

:blue_lol; :blue_lol;

She's 25........graduated in Industrial and Organizational Psychology

[SarkaR]

Sorry i couldnt reply to you quicker. i just got back from a 11 hr shift and finished my dinner.

Thats fine. The time difference compensates.

"I like u Wink ", or "muah!" or "kiss smiley, or any other sort of emotion expressing icons or expressions.

I did not do those things but when she SMS and MSN me she did the "muah". Do you think this is casual for a girl to do this or does she mean something?

2. Give breaks in communicating with her

We spoke last night for only 30 mins. She asked me about my life but we did not get to her life story yet. Do you think we should talk today or shall i give it a break for one or two days?

what to talk about with her?

talk about all different kinds of things that are out there...

start with, wats her favourite ice cream..chocolate...
dont go askin bout her fav number or colour, that creates boredom in the convo...

OK I will try this. Normally if I speak to my women on the phone I ask them about what they are wearing now, what did they do today and all that.

the reason u ask ice cream or chocolate is because when ull go later on to meet her, ull BUY her favourite chocolate and give her a small sweet surprise.
she`ll very very much appreciate that u remembered her choice..

treat her ice cream... wch flavour? u already know it.... Cool

I offered to buy her and her bro/sister food at the mela when she came upto me while I was speaking to my friends. But she said no...bhodrotar jonney I guess.

so, casually ask her things which u can use later on to give her small suprises... everyone loves it when they are surprised by the things they like to have...

Later on at another day..
ask her what kind of qualities she looks for in a guy,

tell her how YOU are...
express ur self..

tell her ur honest and like to be expressive,
ur compromising and sacrificing...

Thanks, I like to give surprises. I will ask her about qualities too.

Personally I am simple, honest, open minded. I like it straight when I have relationships because if their is a communication gap then it is a problem.

start talkin bout what u did that day or what upcoming events are comin up for u...

talk briefly about them, then let her comment on them and also reply back to her comments..

LISTEN to what she says, dont HEAR....

I G2G now..

DTD members are coming over...

OK thanks for those advice. I will try them. I don't want to tell her about my feelings until I find out everything about her. What if she has a b/f? I saw a photo of her on her MSN album with a guy but he looked much younger than her. It could just be a friend. But I will ask her anyway.

She needs a real straight forward no BS man. I don't want to see her with a nigga wannabe asshole. She deserves better and that is why God sent me.
:blue_wink:

[anionz]

u single?

who me?

if ur askin me..

rite now im single....

goin 2 cali on wednesday to meet my ex...dunno wats gonna happen after that..